Updated: Feb 13
When you first arrive in a new country, it is fun to explore the grandeur of a new city, soak up the culture and take your time wandering through new streets and unseen movements of a new city.
However if you are not employed, once the initial excitement of your relocation fades, you might start to question your role here and how you can keep both your body and brain stimulated long-term. This is especially true if you were working elsewhere before arriving here.
Here are six top tips for expat women to make the most out of their time in a new country:
1. Stay Positive and Keep Motivated
Whatever the reason that you moved abroad, the most important piece of advice is to stay positive and keep motivated. Do whatever it takes to keep a smile on your face when you are feeling lost, homesick or frustrated. Exercise, join a sports club, socialise with new people, travel and explore, start a new hobby, write a blog, attend motivational seminars. Find a way to keep your brain active.
2. Think Creatively About Work
If you do not have a ‘job’ but think that you would like to work in some way, think creatively about what you can do. Too many expats seem to limit their ideas or work abroad by what they knew before. If you cannot work here in your field of choice, consider working virtually, volunteer (there are so many worthy organisations here that need volunteers), study, learn a new area of work, or if your visa permits, start a business here doing something fun. You never know how the pieces of the puzzle will come together later.
Toma Haines of The Antiques Diva™ agrees. Toma is an American who has lived abroad in France, the Netherlands and now resides in Germany. Rather than looking at the loss of her traditional career as a sacrifice to her husband’s career, she looked at her time abroad as the perfect opportunity to pursue her ideas and passions – even if it took her a while to decipher what these really were. To illustrate, before starting The Antiques Diva™, Toma thought about teaching gourmet cooking lessons, becoming a certified picture-framer and teaching English as a second language. But, when she realised that her cooking efforts never came out the same way more than once, she hated measuring things (a disaster for a professional picture framer) and that she would pick up the grammatical habits of foreigners rather than correct them, Toma created her antique shopping tour business that now runs in four countries.
3. Build Your Identity
Everybody needs to be ‘somebody’. If your move abroad has stripped you of a lot of the identity that you enjoyed at home (from your workplace, school community, family ties, and so on), it is vital that you re-build your identity abroad as soon as possible so that you again feel like a valued ‘somebody’. If you do not own business cards, get some made. They can be just for your name and contact details, or they can also include details of your profession, or desired profession.
Expats need networks and they need them fast. Expat executives need to network to facilitate business and gain local credibility. Non-working expats, need to network so they know who to call for X, Y or Z – especially if they (or their children) are rushed to the emergency room and need a translator and/or moral support at 2am. Make it a priority to get involved with some of the wonderful social, professional and/or women’s organisations here.
5. Find Mentors
In addition to friends, seek mentors. These are people that can offer priceless knowledge gained from years of living abroad. Mentors can be the heads of local business associations, presidents of local expat clubs, Community Liaison Officers in your organization, independent entrepreneurs who might provide the necessary impetus for you to start a business here, and/or expat life coaches, who are typically longer-term, very well-connected expats who know all about the local culture, expectations and challenges.
6. Go Forth and Enjoy
Whether you came to India for work, business, love, the adventure or just the chance to start a new life, this dynamic region offers a wealth of opportunities for you to recreate your life and identity here. So, make the most of your time here: be open to new ideas; think creatively about what you can do; try new things; believe in your abilities; and above all else… go forth and have the time of your life!
Original Publication by: Andrea Martins is the Director and Co-Founder of ExpatWomen